Y'all antis act lik it’s hella easy to go to therapy for bein a map n lik ??? That kinda sh+t is
Nerve wrackin y'all lik
What r antis on that makes em think u can jus
Walk up to a therapist n be lik “yo i think lil kids r hot”
Lik that
Ain’t no easy thing to say
Especially knowin how stigmatized it is???
Like r they all like
If u a pedo get help, go to therapy!!
Lik um pretty sure most therapists rn’t actually trained in how to treat someone who’s a map?? So how u know it even be helpful??
Hhj sorry this is
Jumbled
very-anti-pedophille
Y’all really missed out when god was handing out some common sense and decency weren’t you. I’ll make it easy so even two tiny little brain cells can comprehend: a therapist won’t report you unless you’re viewed as a threat( this means you’re big bad!)
let autistic people infodump about their special interests without laughing at them or telling them they’re annoying. that kinda shit is what wrecks someone’s self-esteem and makes it even harder for them to form relationships bc everyone has told them they’re annoying and that their interests are stupid. don’t do it
forgot to add: this goes for ppl w adhd / add that have hyperfixations as well
as an autistic person w add i approve this message but i’d also like to add that this doesn’t mean you can never ask someone who is infodumping on you to slow down or if you could talk about something else or that you don’t have the time to talk right now or whatever, just don’t be an asshole about it.
great addition!!!!!!!!! very good addition that i honestly shoulda put in the original post, thank you for stating it!
Puerto Rico, Day 131: âMore than 1 million people still w/o power (31% of the island) âHundreds of thousands still w/o clean water âStill a humanitarian emergency
FEMA has decided to âofficially shut offâ food and water aid on Wednesday.
hey uhâŚ. just a quick um what in the entire fuck?
This reminds me of how a friend of mine was abused by the mother of his child. She was mentally unstable and used to berate him constantly and would smack him in the head all the time. It really pissed me off. Then one night she threw hot coffee in his face and tried to stab him with a screwdriver. The cops hauled him off to jail because she made up a sob story that painted herself as the victim.
Once he left her, he stayed with me and it was a nightmare. She stalked him and me. She would drive by my house obsessively at all hours of the day and night (her muffler made a weird sound so I know it was her). She started showing up at my job, showing up at the places I frequented around town, and filling up my voicemail with dead air. The cops were no help.
One day she got bold enough to talk her way into my home by conning my elderly grandmother, whom I was taking care of, while I was out. She went in my room and went through my stuff (creepy), then found him napping on the couch and attacked him. My grandmother witnessed the whole thing. He grabbed her by the arms, forced her out the front door, and locked it. The cops were called again. They said they’d go and ‘talk’ to her.
The next day we were watching a movie and there was a knock at the door. The police had come to arrest him. She filed a complaint against him and shown off some bruises on her arms from the altercation that she swore were completely unprovoked. My grandmother saw the whole thing since she was in the living room too and testified on his behalf. He still ended up serving jail time. No one takes male domestic violence victims seriously. They only see males as perpetrators.
It’s hard to move on from something like what happened, when that person has made a huge impact on your life.
Don’t feel guilty for not been sad anymore, he wouldn’t of wanted us to be sad for too long.
If you are still hurting, it will get better over time, whether it be a week or a month. Take your time, don’t feel like you have to pretend to be okay because some people have stopped grieving.
Don’t think that by not mourning anymore, you are forgetting about Jonghyun. How can anybody forget him, when he’s left such an amazing legacy behind.
You are allowed to be happy again, he wouldn’t want you to grieve anymore. Take the steps you need in order to get closure because you deserve it💛
Please please please reblog, even if you don’t speak spanish. Help me warn people about the tsunami alert!! You may save their life tonight, please reblog!
URGENT: The United States Central of Tsunami Alerts has emitted a Tsunami Alert for the following territories with coats on the Caribbean Sea: Cayman Islands, Jamaica, Mexico, Honduras, Cuba. Belize, San Andrés, Costa Rica, Panama, Nicaragua, and Guatemala.
17.500
°N, 83.600
°W, depth 33.0 K, 36 km to the northeast of the Swan Islands, Honduras.
Limits of plates Caribbean and North America.
cuphead and mugman were just confirmed to be adults with childish interests and if ur first response to it “that means they’re legal for sex!!!!!” then i don’t like you
“Not all armys” is deflective and problematic behavior meant to discredit the real hurt people are facing. If you’re going into peoples inboxes with this, think again, because the problem at hand DID very much issue from one fan with malicious intentions spurred by their need to villanaize a rival group’s member. “Not all army’s” says “I’m not like that so there isn’t a problem here plz stop talking about it.” This continuous toxic behavior is reflective of a toxic environment. Your favs are always advocating for y'all to love yourselves and others and yet??? “Not all army’s,” normalizes and tries to excuse and disregard the very real, very dangerous and hurtful actions at play.
Doesn’t matter if you knew of him or not. Don’t make this about you. This is about a talented guy, a sweet and strong one that openly supported minorities, spoke up on behalf of people that have mental disorders, advocated for the LGBT community… All that while living in a society that keeps on ignoring said issues, treating them like they don’t exist. This is about a brave man that defended people that suffered from mental illnesses with his all, and as we can tell today it’s also because of how he knew what they were going through. Respect him, think about his good actions and how he did make a difference while he could. How he touched many lives. Understand that the routine idols are forced to endure have consequences. Stop ignoring that the industry is hurting these people, pay attention to what they’re really saying. Pay attention to how the companies are treating their artists. And please remind yourself that it honestly doesn’t matter if they’re constantly smiling - you don’t know how they’re truly feeling. Please, please take mental health seriously and take the time to be kind to others.
Let me start off by saying: my father
is abusive, and this post will (hopefully) be the only way for me to
get out of my abusive household.
Iâll explain to you guys a few things
so that you can understand my current situation:
My father is the father of all
control freaks.Â
I am 19 years of age - legally an adult
in Canada. However, he will not allow me to be independent, such as
having my own cat or my own vehicle in my name, and he also uses
these things as a form of blackmail to keep me in the house.
He controls how much time I spend
on the internet, and who I talk to; he went as far as illegally
running background checks on my former partners. I have little to
no privacy, he periodically rummages through my room to find
something to yell at me about, and if he doesnât, he yells at me
for the mess *he* left.
Moreover, he has denied me medical
treatment multiple times, even for serious injuries (e.g. a
dislocated elbow).
Starting in high-school up until now, I
have suffered from several mental illnesses, including depression,
extreme anxiety, panic attacks, and PTSD caused by severe trauma that
lasted 5 years of my childhood and has left massive gaps in my
memory. All of these mental illnesses have had a huge impact on my
life, not just at home, but in my school work as well, and my
day-to-day life.
However, my father does not believe any
of my trauma is real, says itâs my fault if I was traumatised,
constantly belittles me for my mental health problems, and says Iâm
making everything up for attention.
On top of that, he is abusive to my
siblings too; one of them is older and already moved out, and the
other one is only 14 years old.
Finally, my father told me that if I do
not do what he wants and go to school, I will be kicked out onto the
street, family ties cut, and *everything* I own taken from me. My
cat, will not only be taken away but âgotten rid ofâ by their
words which could mean a number of things.
However, if I graduate a program in
college I can leave the house and bring my cat, Molly, with me. This
is her!:
(She isnât actually mad her face just looks like that) Â And I also get to keep my
vehicle. Both of these things are not in my name even though
currently I pay for them both, and take care of them completely by
myself. The car is relatively unimportant to me as I donât consider
it an essential but Molly must come with me.
I currently have no money
saved up for post secondary education, due to my mental health
disintegrating thanks to a disability in the middle of my first year
of nursing, and me losing the capability to witness deaths in the
hospital placement. And all of this wasting all the funds I had
saved. On top of this, he has said that he expects me to go back to
school in January, which as of right now is not financially possible.
He has said that if I do not go back to school by January then I am
to be kicked out. However, if I can reason with my mother then I can
possibly push this back to September of 2018, which will most likely
give me enough time to gather the funds. Â
So as I said, I need to get out of my
abusive household as soon as possible, because itâs extremely
detrimental to my already fragile mental health. This is whyI
am opening the doors for commissions of any and all kinds to help
save money for this plan.
I am not asking for donations,
and I am not asking for hand-outs, because I honestly hate asking for
help and I donât like just taking peopleâs money without giving
something in return. If you are unable to or do not wish to help by
commissioning then all I ask is that you reblog this post so
that it can be seen.
Here is the plan:
My father, of course, said he refuses to
help me in the slightest if I wanted to move, so, I donât get even
a bit of help from my family. Thatâs why I need to save more money
to get in and finish a ONE YEAR program so that I can seal the
devilâs deal and get the hell out of dodge as soon as possible (the
shortest college programs run for one year). Right now, I work a
part-time job that only earns me minimum wage, and still have bills
to pay on top of that. I am unable to get a second job as my
disability doesnât allow for it, and because of this I am not making
enough money to save for school in time for January. I Â am not going
to be depending solely on commissions to save the money, as I AM
working, itâs just that extra push to get things done.
Iâm sure, however, that
youâre wondering why I donât just leave. And believe me, I have tried
to. Here is a short list of examples of what my father is like and
why I cannot leave of my own free will:
1. Â Once, I ran away
in the middle of the night after a massive fight, he called the
police on me and told them I had drugs in my possession (obviously, a
lie) to get me searched and arrested. There is a great possibility of
this happening again if I tried to get away even though I am an
adult, heâd do anything to try and get me arrested.
2. I
tried to leave to a friendâs house for refuge during a massive fight
over laundry, which led to my father furiously chasing me down the
driveway to my car. There, I sat with the doors locked and windows
rolled up while he banged on them and tried to rip open the door for
a good 20 minutes. He then said if I left the driveway *in the car
that is actually mine*, he would call the police and tell them I had
stolen it to get me arrested again.
3. While he is not physically
abusive, he has tried to hit me. During yet another fight, which
involved him coming into my bedroom while I was sleeping in the
middle of the night to yell at me for something minor I canât even
remember, he attempted to grab my face and hit me. I have without a
doubt that he will make some kind of physical attempt at keeping me
from leaving the house.
I have tried to fight fire with fire
so many times, and every time it has just ended with more violence
and abuse. For the past several years I have tried to escape or find
ways out, and have failed. Getting through the next year or two with
my head low, doing what he says and taking the punches as they come
is the only way out.
Thank-you, for reading through this to
the end. If you are interested in helping and want a commission
please message me, or send me an ask if you have questions, and we
can work out details and prices. If you still wish to help but cannot
commission all I ask is that you re-blog this post.
I will be
posting some recent drawings Ive been working on for examples.
me, beating the goblin with a stick: no!!! its nice having my positive traits acknowledged!! responding to affirmation by denying it doesn’t make anybody feel good! the goodness in me isn’t always visible to myself, and i won’t put myself down when people see it! i deserve compliments!
hideous brain goblin, spitting blood: they’re lying to you to make you feel bet–
me, loading my shotgun: I’ll Feel Better And That’s What Matters, Shitlord. Making Those Assumptions And Festering On Them Will Only Hurt Me And The People Who Genuinely Do Mean Their Compliments. If I Assume The Worst In Praise, I Won’t See The Best In Myself.
